When You’re Leading and No One’s Listening: Why Clarity Alone Isn’t Enough

We’ve all been there. You hold the meeting, lay out expectations with care and precision, get a few nods and maybe even a “thanks for the clarity”…and then? Nothing.

The same issues crop up. The same questions resurface. The same tasks get skipped. And you start to wonder: Is it me? Is it them? Or is the entire system secretly rigged to make you feel like a failure?

Welcome to the Owner’s Room.

This episode of the Culture Focused Practice podcast digs into the exact emotional, operational, and existential terrain that happens when you’re leading with intention… and it still doesn’t work.

It’s Not About You (But Also… Sometimes It Is)

First, let’s call this out: not everything your team does (or doesn’t do) is a reflection of you. But also — you do have to ask the hard questions.

Did you actually give a deadline?
Did you follow up in writing?
Did you bake accountability into the system, or were you hoping clarity alone would carry it?

Supportive Leadership vs. Enabling

There’s a fine line between helping and hovering. Sometimes, we need to step back and let folks experience the consequences of their decisions. Other times, we need to hold the line before things spiral. If your work touches clients, the cost of failure is real. If it’s a low-risk internal experiment? Let 'em trip and process the learnings.

The Real Problem Might Be Your Meetings

If you're not doing L10 meetings (EOS-style), you’re probably talking at your team instead of working with them.

EOS meetings (with scorecards, rocks, and to-dos) create rhythm, accountability, and follow-up. If you’re not solving issues weekly, you’re going to feel like a broken record and your team’s going to act like one.

Conceptual Perfectionism and the Burnout It Breeds

For some leaders (hi, yes, me), the block isn’t that we can’t delegate — it’s that we can’t delegate until it all lives clearly inside of us. That mental purgatory? Exhausting. And often invisible to those around us. But when we finally get that clarity? It’s full sprint ahead.

The Scenario You Know Too Well

A team that nods and does nothing isn’t a mystery — it’s a system without built-in accountability. The answer isn’t more talking. It’s better structure.

If you’re tired of being the one who holds the whole thing together, this episode is your permission slip to stop carrying what your systems should be handling.

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About the Author

Dr. Tara Vossenkemper is a gently-candid consultant who’s been in the trenches of group practice ownership since 2017. With a hearty blend of depth, irreverence, and a solid dash of humor (or so she hopes), Tara helps practice owners navigate the can-be-messy process of hiring, culture-building, vision generating, people-y issues, and all the other things that keep you up at night. When she’s not consulting, she’s probably wrangling her animals or homeschooling her kids—because why not add more chaos to the mix?

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